在第二张纸片上，所写的东西要较之第一张纸片要具体。这里的具体既是指所做的工作要具体。如第一张纸上你若写了过幸福的生活，那么在这一张纸上你就得将之分解为较为具体细致的目标。
实例扫描：拥有一份满意的工作，进入管理阶层；经济收入比刚工作时翻一倍；向女朋友求婚；将母亲接到自己身边；和好朋友经常保持联系…… 第三步：半年内最重要的事
请在第三张纸上写下第三问：我在这半年内都应该做哪些事？哪些工作对我是最重要的、最迫切的。这张纸片所罗列的内容，应该比第二张纸更具体、细致、全面，是自己需要也是能够立刻做的。
实例扫描：申请学位，联系实习单位去实习；帮助女友补习功课；经常给母亲打电话；和朋友保持联系…… 第四步：浏览前三步
浏览一下前三步答案，你应该发现，第二步的答就是第一步答案的延伸，第三步的答案则是前两步答案的继续。如果你的三步答案不具备这种逻辑，就需要重新来做，务必使这些答案符合事物的发展逻辑。 第五步：目标分类
请把3张纸片都拿起来，把上面的目标分别归类，如分为事业目标、爱好特长目标、能力目标、婚恋目标、社会友情目标、身心素质目标、读书目标等。 实例扫描：事业目标：功成名就、进入管理层、联系实习单位； 婚姻目标：幸福、向女友求婚、帮女友补习功课 ……
第六步：确立不同时期的目标
请按类别关系，将三张纸片上的目标按同类关系。以及同性质的关系连成一条线，就成了你的短期、中期、长期的目标了。 实例扫描(以事业目标为例)：
短期 中期 长期 联系实习单位--进入管理阶层--功成名就
然后，结合自己的个人情况，根据短期目标制定切实可行的月计划、周计划、日计划。每一级计划的指定都应该是服务于上一级计划的，比如，制定周计划是为了成月计划，制定日计划是为了完成周计划。当短期目标实现后再向下一个目标突进。 测试四【坦诚】
设定人生目标的具体步骤，具体方法，具体工具........
1. 首先你要很了解自己。你到世上的使命是什么？你的优势是什么？你的快乐源泉是什么？
在中国，回答这样的问题似乎不是那么的容易。从小，没有人关注你的这些，也没有人希望你关注自己的这些，你唯一被关注的是成绩、收入、是不是有了房子车子妻子孩子。
那么，比了解自己还要先做的，是拷问自己：要作社会意义上成功的人，还是要实现真实的自己？有人可以放弃名利，去传播一种思想，或者去征服一座大山，或者去保护一种动物，这样的人生目标会在你的考虑范围内吗？
2. 不要着急，不是所有人都一下子能找到自己的人生目标的。管理大师德鲁克，成为了成功的经济分析师之后，才发现自己的人生目标原来是研究人而不是研究数字。所以，需要有足够的耐心！
3. 在耐心地等待自己被自己了解和发现的过程中，你可以读各种各样的书，结识各种各样的人，尝试各种各样的事，但尽可能的不要浅尝辄止。
4. 工具：你的心。你的能量和动力在你里头，需要安静自己，忠实于自己，跟自己沟通。
具体案例.......
可以关注这个世界上各种典型人物的事迹，从这些故事了解他们当初是怎么设定人生目标的。不一定需要有人给你分析好了送到你的脑袋里头。 修正自己的目标，细化自己的目标........
窃以为，有多少种人，就有多少种人生，就有多少种人生目标，就有多少种修正和细化的方法。也许可以为了这个命题写一本通用手册，但那充其量是一张快餐食谱，很难给到适合你身体所需的营养和口味。 测试五【心声】
Most of us live our life unconsciously. The daily routine of work
keeps our mind busy. There is always the next vacation or party to look forward to. Then one Sunday afternoon, when we are lolling in our bed, it suddenly hits us? What is my purpose in life? For some this question arises when they are stuck in a meaningless job or a dead end life situation.
Living life with an external purpose can be quite satisfying but it's not so straight forward to come up a fixed purpose by which you define your life. Most people come up with a purpose just for the heck of it and then they find out that they are not really passionate about it in the first place.
It helps to have a solid foundation in reality, or the truths of life, before you sit down to finding your purpose in life. Here are a few pointers that can help you in this process. Check if you already have a purpose?
If you find your present life purposeless just looks again. In the totality of life there is no purpose that is too small or too big. Even a street sweeper fulfills a very important purpose in his life. Even if you are working in a small firm you are fulfilling a vital purpose in the link of life by the service you provide.
May be you are supporting a family, or raising kids, that's quite a significant purpose. If you think your life is meaningless right now, it would just show that you are not really paying attention to your present role.
Your true calling need not be magnanimous?
Some people get really famous while some live a private life. There is no real difference between the two. Each person fulfills a specific role and no role is more important than the other.
Your inherent talent might just define your life's purpose? It's surprising how many people go through life with some incredible talent within which they don't convert to a career or service. If you have a talent, it's life's gift to you. Try to find the best way possible to
convert your talent to something which gives service to people. There is no better way to live a purpose, and make money, than through an inherent talent.
Listen to your heart rather than your mind?
Heart and mind are just metaphors. Heart denotes your intuition while the mind stems out of your conditioning patterns. Get in touch with the inner voice in your heart and see if there is a deep seated desire that is recurring. May be all along you have just ignored this desire.
Your mind might find several excuses to tell you what your heart wants is impractical, but that's just your conditioning speaking. The voice of your heart is always true and it points to your deep seated yearning.
Write up an essay on what type of life you want to live?
It's amazing how many insights you can get simply by writing down your thoughts. There are millions of thoughts rushing through the mind each day and it's difficult to make sense of it all. When you sit down to write, the thoughts become more organized.
Without much ado just start typing or writing down what type of life you really want to live. Just write freely without involving the mind too much, let the words just come out of your subconscious. You might have to write for a few minutes before you really get into the groove. It helps to write for a few hours even if your mind stops churning out ideas. It's precisely when the mind gives up that the heart
starts talking. When you read this essay you can find your purpose in life in some of the words or sentences that came out subconsciously. Let the answer come from stillness?
Our intelligence operates at two levels? One is the noisy mind and the next is the silent space of stillness within us. The space of stillness is far more intelligent than the conditioned mind and this has been proven by several creative geniuses who speak of entering the zone of no-mind before creating their master pieces.
To access this space of stillness, just sit in a relaxed position and get in touch with your inner body. When you place your attention on your inside of your body, the mind tends to stop. Feel the sensations and
energy passing through your body. After a while all these sensations will subside and will give way to stillness. Ask for your purpose in this state of stillness without expecting a verbal answer from your mind. Sometimes you might get your answer immediately as a sudden burst of intuition or you might get your answer later in your dreams or waking state.
职业生涯规划系列之 - 《如果你不知道做什么工作》 - 图文
